Quest Coaching
​One-on-one coaching is essential for fulfilling one’s life quest because it provides personalized guidance, accountability, and support tailored to individual goals and challenges. Unlike generalized advice, a coach helps clarify your vision, identify obstacles, and develop strategies that align with your unique strengths and aspirations. Through focused attention, coaching fosters self-awareness, builds confidence, and accelerates personal growth, empowering you to stay committed and achieve your ultimate life purpose.
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Our one on one coaching is designed to help you fulfill your life's quest.
The following is a brief introduction to the meta structure we utilize:
THE SUMMONS
Every man is called to a quest. It is the combustion of life. To have something worth suffering for, worth fighting for, worth training and disciplining for. The quest accomplishes something, provides something, heals something. The quest is wired in you and whispers to you. It beckons you.
But we live trivial lives of distraction, redirected from and drowning out the quest. Instead of living out God’s wiring in us, we spend our days attempting to meet others’ wantings from and for us. So we settle into the mold, play along; but we die a little each day. But we pretend it’s all okay. We numb our passions with the bottle and porn. We distract ourselves with the next toy. We stream ourselves to sleep watching other men on their quest.
For a moment we remember it, we feel it calling. It fills our dreams. But we wake up and do it all over again. Sleep, drink, eat, repeat.
When the sense of the quest is lost, meaning and purpose are lost; life drifts aimlessly. Opportunities are missed, desire cools, and perversion creeps in. A man without a quest is not only a sad sight, it’s a liability to society.
It’s time to wake up and embark on your quest. To stop living for what others want from you and begin unlocking God’s wiring in you. He made you for a quest. You need it, your wife and children need it, your community needs it, the glory of God demands it.
Quest Coaching aims to help you discover, embark on, and complete your quest.
THE STORY
Mark Twain once quipped, “the two most important days in a person’s life are the day he is born and the day he discovers why”. You are not an accident. You were created and wired for a specific calling. The process of fulfilling your calling is your quest. Yet, few men ever discover their quest. Instead, Thoreau argued the “mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation”. There you have it, two paths: discover your quest or desperately drift along. But how does one discover their quest?
The first step is to accept that your life isn’t merely about you. You exist within something bigger than you. More is going on than your drama. That may offend you, but facts are stubborn things. If you try to live against the grain of this reality and demand the world revolve around you, your life will not only be desperate, but others will be desperate to distance themselves from you.
No, your story is a subplot in a grander story. And your Quest is a vital thread in that bigger drama. Accepting this reality expedites the discovery of your Quest because it provides the four key ingredients of life: purpose, problem, prescription, and paradise.
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THE SELF
The Quest is both external and internal. It is not just in the world, but in the soul. Without focus on the self, the Quest in the world will be derailed.
We are complex beings living complex lives in a complex world. There is more than one aspect to you.
In coaching we seek to help you know yourself and own every aspect of yourself; because what you won't own will end up owning you.
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THE STAGES
The Quest takes place over a progression of life Stages. It is vital to process stages already passed through, locate the current stage, and plan for further growth.
The stages offer a sort of life cartography, helping us navigate the pressures and demands of life with healthy perspective.
THE SNARES
At each stage in the Quest, a man must prepare for Snares that will derail the Quest. These Snares entangle and derail progress.
The power of the Snare comes in the form of a unique Siren, which like the bewitching Siren's of mythology, lure a man off course, making shipwreck of his life.
